I hate the child of a man like a girl. I hate the child of a man in the first place.

Hello Olesya. I can’t solve the problem on my own, I tried to ask for joy. Rick that of a man they took away from their own child a child like another. Nini yoma 14 years. Live vchotirioh - I, cholovik, mother of a cholovіka that yoga syn. Mother, like a child, moved, but arranged everything so that she herself wanted to live with the father. On the right, in the fact that in me, step by step, hatred to the point of a child began to be born, such an all-mighty and unstoppable. Earlier, if I just came on vacation, I obviously didn’t feel such feelings before the new one. Vіn n_koli me especially not befitting, chi is not a native soul, chi scho. But there was no such impatience. I can’t tell you what I can’t accept for myself, I want to say - EVERYTHING. The new bastard has a recession, his mother, the uncle and the grandmother at the side of the mother have schizophrenia in that other form. And my sister has epilepsy, she learns from a correctional school. Wanting in a new language is not a sign of schizophrenia. Vіn, one might say, nothing to cluck. You don’t show the talents of everyday people. Navchaєtsya on "3". I don’t help you with lessons, I don’t remember anything, and I don’t work on everyday visnovki. School - computer - school. Father and those Rest hour between yoga games on the computer, trying to get yoga to work in the state (we live with a private booth), help with the repair of the car too soon. Sin does not want to rob everything, you can say “in one place”. Yak bi I described yogo - no fish, no meat. Just mavpa, as I stupidly repeat after my classmates mustaches, in the middle they are empty. I once said to the people who boasted about you - calm down, stay calm, just don’t think about it, don’t worry. And after inserting my five kopecks, I often shy away, I don’t think about anything. And five kopіyok vіn duzhe love to insert on all the roses of grown-ups. And to stick like a nіsenіtnitsa, it’s clear that it’s not your own thoughts and that it doesn’t look like everything is said, but just a parrot. Previously, I often zaїkavsya, now it's easier. Sometimes I know what wines are specifically asked for. Pathological nonsense, a thousand times Yogo has already been caught in nonsense. I already know that the first word is bullshit. If you want nothing, it’s too bad, maybe, having learned such stosunki from your mother, you can’t deprive them of anything. At school, you behave like a ganchirka, often otrimu potilichniks like classmates and classmates. Now the youmu's hands are tattered, then the clothes are torn, then the blue bump is blue. It doesn’t seem to be in the hands of one’s own father, who is imagining it, it seems that it’s so vipadkovo. Those who are put like before the ganchirka, the information is not correct. Batko teach yoga fight (he himself engaged in a lot of rock), learn how to stand up for yourself. Alesin does not show interest before training, sings that no one will lie and fight against kim. At home, love us more, give me a favor. Mother of a person, yogo grandmother, yogo can’t stand it, and you can’t say for what specifically. I energized it once - what's wrong with the new one? Looks like it's not like that, you need a doctor. Why are you jealous, hisism is on my side? I understand that wine is wrong, that wine is self-fulfilling from the one that was slaughtered in the new, that it is not possible to be more powerful, that it is necessary to be patient and help you, and not sue yoga. But I hate yoga so much, I just can’t stand it physically. It is noteworthy that two years ago the children of a man lived with us in the first ship, while their mother was lying in the hospital. The boy is 14 years old and the girl is 12 years old. I didn’t have such problems with them, I didn’t have jealousy. The boy wants to be deprived of us, and I wanted the other one, and I took the other one. I spoiled a girl like a wine, carrying it in my arms, but there was no jealousy in me. I didn't bother me with stench. Everything was booming and the lessons were to work with them, and play, and walk. Wanting to stink is not superchildren, but zvichayní pіdlіtki without special talents. Why do I have to hate? Help.

TheSolution psychologist's advice:

Good day! Tse nutrition is even more relevant, for you for nothing. Vidpovіd on the new bude tsіkava rich zhіnka, yakі opililis at your situation.

You project your feelings of anger on the boy's personality

You see a strong anger, unpraised that rose to a boy. Do not go about jealousy, go about rejection. Let's take a look at the possible reasons why I will become. Unacceptable that anger at the address of the lad's mother can be projected on a new one. Calling on everything, your attitude to the colossal squad of your person is sharply negative. Insanely, you have є causes it to be put up to it. However, the lad does not look like his mother's mother, so he will have a vin similar to her. Children sound like fathers. І not so called, like in behavioral models. Children take those that they preach. І yakscho їх otochuє clean Jerelna water, stink to take in itself її, and like a musty swamp, stink to take those that they pronounce. It is impossible to name children for those who stink. Children - tse vіdbitok їhnіh batkіv. And the fathers are faring away from each other, as it seems. Greater for everything, You project your own destiny to the mother for the lad. Zvіdsi i claims to yogo address is not like a child, but like an even grown-up person.

Vihovannya specialty - majestic good practice

“I can’t say what specifically is unacceptable to me in a new one ... A new rotten thing has a recession” can mean literally like this: fear that the boy will make life easier, create problems, it’s on your reputation, on the thought of those who are worried about your homeland, that about you, to kill, it’s possible . Obviously, your fault is not true about those who may be a child in fire and this particular boy, zokrema. Kindly read, chimos, help the fathers, do not sit at the computer, be active, listen at once, cry out pride too soon. All the fathers may dream about such a child. But not everyone is convinced that the child is a reflection of themselves. "The character of a child is the essence of the character of the fathers, the vine develops in the child on their character" (Erich Fromm). Vihovannya osobennosti - tse great pratsya. Pratsya batkіv over himself, ahead of us. It’s not the words that wail the child, but the butt of the father and the father’s behavior at his address.

In adults, the process of identifying oneself with a child is often included.

Tobto. like yogo success, and yogo failure is mature in your own. Tobto. like a child is good to read and behave, I can write myself, I good father. And it’s nasty to behave and bring twos, threes - think about me, like about a filthy dad. It is worth witnessing that the fathers of their development did not go through the stage of separation and separation. Tsya one of the stages of development of special early childhood, which is even more important for the development of authentic (strong and ingrained specialness). Insanely, the fathers of a significant world pour into the results of the activity of the child, however, the child - ce okrema specialism, like a child independently, although not without the help of grown-ups.

You can do it right with an injured child, as if your mother did not need it.

It's easy to show the situation if the ring didn't hit the child. It is difficult to show the situation, if the mother is in the presence of a child, and she does not experience it in an important form. But the situation, if the child is taken as a mother, is even less likely. Teach the fathers of alcoholics to love their children. Tse laid down by nature. Children love their fathers like they stink. The boy is resting at the station of the strongest stress, that yoga psyche is being protected, as it may be in the form of tsikh experience. The boy is not guilty of anything. Neither in that, like yoga day, nor in that, like yoga was swung.

Take a baby for a vihovannya - great promise

Decide to take on yourself the responsibility for the life of the adoptive child, but we will consider it and think it over. Absolutely, majestic v_dpovidalnist! You are not guilty to take it on yourself, as if you are not aware of your own strength. Considering that you are not strong enough, or that you don’t want to work, you behave more positively. Possibly, You recognize the fault for your promotion to the boy, and at the same time you take care of yourself with the fear and goiter of pissing about the new one. In this way, you can’t right because of the internal conflict. If you don’t know what’s true, you’re ready to go, and you have to be patient with that love of a fight about something, know yourself honestly from someone. You will not become filthy people. You are not guilty of loving that boy. And if you chose dbati about something else, then your choice is yours. The child is not guilty for the new confession. And the boy himself has no such right. Vіn zmusheniy pіdlashtovuvatsya pіd tі surround life, like yomu proponovanі.

What can you do to help you get out of hate

In order not to project the qualities of other people that are unacceptable to you, it is important for you to propagate your own life scenario with a consistent model of behavior. Garn book on this topic, I can recommend you - Call for living, Berry and Janey Winehold. An important part of the change is the acceptance of one's own imperfections and the imperfections of other people. Tobto. with usima nedolіkami, without pragnennya to correct the people and to make them ideal. The change of other people is not in your power. It is important to learn to protect the weak side, but to emphasize respect for the people's advances. Repair from yourself. Pochnіt praise yourself, vіdmovtesya vіd unconstructive criticism to your address. If so, it will be easier for you to put yourself before other people.

The lad doesn't really understand your points.

Vin is not ideal. Vіn do not behave as you would like. Vіn not goiter's work. Vrahovyuchi furnish yoga life, yoga behavior is good and adequate to the situation. The boy is watching your setting up to the new one, so you won’t show it. Most of the information of a person is taken not from words, but from gestures, mimics, intonations, postures of the body. You don’t know what to love, what to love, what to talk about. It is not possible for him to check for something that you have matured, you yourself do not give him. You write that you have a boy, and your grandmother calls out sharply negative emotions. Mother seemed to move. Who at once plays for him the role of a dreadful dad, who gives love, turbota, caress that insanely pleasant? The child is protected and led to act passively, as if you don’t feel safe, as if you don’t have a stable, calm and trusting environment in your family. You see strong anger, talking about the qiu child. Understand that a child does not look like a father. And for yourself, the child does not carry any evidence, to rob the fathers. Like a decision about those, if a child came to their world, they could also take the stench. For the development of a child, you need love, zahist, opika, pіdtrimka, stability and maturity, like playing the role of fathers, bearing for the new viability. It doesn't matter if your child is already 14 years old. If you do not successfully pass the main stages of development of specialty, then you will not be prepared for independence and will be irritable, the docks will not complete the important stages of development of early childhood.

It is important for you to accept someone else.

With usima yogo perevagami and nedolіkami. From yoga we pass that yoga we m'єyu. You don’t need to love this past time and people from the new one. But if you don’t accept it, then you should be listed in the first line on your stosunki with a person. Our family is part of us, like a husky or a leg. And a person cannot act like a part of himself, to inspire like a workable hand. Tobto. man, obviously, you can go away, but you don’t know, but you can’t see him anywhere. Those that your man has passed away, and the guilt of dealing with people from the past, is an unmistakable fact. Chi do not accept this part of yoga life, it means do not accept a part of yoga itself. Yakbi V showed up razdratuvannya, bachachi crooked nіs abo mugs in the human ear. How do you feel yourself? Those that we cross over do not cease to inspire and continue to infuse into our lives.

It is important for you to clearly indicate what fate you want to take from the boy's life.

Do not wait on those who do not rule you. It is important to discuss such food until the decision is praised, but then you can also discuss it, because you are worried about not being in power. Tsya vznachenіst pіde to melancholy and you, i lad. Youmu will understand how Youmu needs to behave. The role of the skin may be influenced by the different steps of the difference and the difference in radiation. The children of your person in front of the previous hats are not your turbota. And if you are not prepared to be a mother to him, be just a friend, a member of this team of a tata. Numbers of roles do not transfer the father's function. It is important for you to share the stosunki: yours with a man, yours with a lad, a lad with a father, etc. І do not break between these stosunkiv. Tobto. do not get involved at the blue, as if you will be a son and a father among yourself, do not play the role of an intermediary in the arbitral tribunal. Domovtesya with a man, like the role you want to play in the life of a lad, and support the youngsters independently, without learning other things.

The child appeared to no one indecent, he was terribly self-conscious.

Yomu needs only one Dorosliy, who does not hurt, to slander, tell about something new, take yoga. As long as the wine is being protected. I don’t know if I’ve been intervened, how you need to be, so that they loved you and accepted you. you lie down difficult task. If you are not ready for anything, then talk to the person. The child is not guilty of pardoning the fathers. Your cholovіk vіdpovіdaє for the life of sin, not V. At the same time, you will change in the position of competition with your child. It is important for you to understand that she is small, and Vee is large. It is necessary to put up to the child, as if to a lesser extent, that weak essence. Vіn injuries and rozrakhovuє on pіdtrimku and dopomomu grown up. Do not judge a new one by his good behavior. So vin to fight. Yogo nevpevnenіst and vulnerability are marked on stosunka іz classmates. Vin is afraid to ask for a zahista, because don’t think that it won’t turn the other way around. So that the child shared her experiences, it is necessary to consider what she can trust and not run into criticism of that convict. Until then, in the eyes of classmates, youmu does not want to be famous for being a weakling. Vіn is the only support for yourself, and I am important to feel at the safety of the quiet models of behavior, as I know and understand.

Include psychopathology.

Consult the boy with a child psychotherapist. Pathological deceit in psychopaths. However, in psychopathology, rozvazhlivistvo, callousness, cold-bloodedness and other symptoms are characteristic. Falsehood can be a wicked reaction of a child. If vin pragne is true to ochіkuvannya and that embellishes reality, pidganyayuchi її pіd ochіkuvannya grown-ups, sob but accept that we praise.

You, the man and the boy, are shown family therapy.

The situation that has evolved is foldable for all members of the family, and for a lad in the first black, who is a child, and there are no such resources in the new one, know and know, like in grown-ups. І to cope with stressful situations in the wiser, lower matured. It is important to develop confidence and emotional closeness among the natives. Tobto. openly discuss your experiences, fights, plans, troubles, joys and worries, and, going out of it, you know the solution. The specialist will help you to establish contact and buti critical to dialogue. The skin of a child is good for love, zahistu and turboti. Absolutely leather. I don't need a mother for anyone who has special talents, otherwise he should score 4-5. The child's skin deserves to be well placed. Know for yourself that confidence, which you are not ready to bear, and you feel better for yourself. Good luck to you!

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From the early fates of us, it is so eagerly and eagerly to read fathers, readers, books and films, what to do with it - it’s a great joy, an inexcusable foolishness, a harmless mutual hand, that harmony of close stosunkivs.

The basis of a healthy skin and a happy family strong man and the lower woman, whose hearts once and for all ate to the mother's kohanny. And now the stink of living plіch-oh-plіch, and pass all the barriers and negarazdi on the way at once.

They often have a child, but rather - two or three charming little ones. Such lyublyachі, turbotlivі that fair mother that tato wihovuyut correctly that otochyuyut unskinned caress.

At this, obviously, there is harmony and warmth of a woman with the fathers of the squad and that person - with mother-in-law and father-in-law, father-in-law and father-in-law, with brothers, sisters, grandmothers and grandparents ... Zagalom, absolutely idyll.

Yakshcho you chіrko laugh, reading all the same is not wonderful. Ideal families are practically not known today, and there is more to go about such a family, in which a new mother appeared.

Machuha... Why is the word for our sonorous hearing taken negatively - evil, unloving, a stranger's woman, like falsehood and do not accept ... Maybe, here the fairy tales played a great role - even though she herself so often figured in them the evil stepmother.

And the axis of good, turbo-fueled, loving motherfuckers did not exist in any case, in the everyday Kazakh. Perhaps because such a woman was simply affectionately called mother?

I am a motherfucker.

Most often, when separated from a person, a woman takes her children with her. To that very fact, the word "mother" is so familiar and may not be lived in.

But the situations are different, and at times the children are left alone with the same father. And if you suddenly make friends, a new mother appears in the same way, to check for the right test.

Living abroad for a person, as she was already once friends, a woman often experiences simply neimovirny stress and hates not only to her own children, but to all the relatives of a new person. Such a woman has a roaring vigukuє: “I hate relatives of a man, yoga family, fathers and smuts, children!”

A woman is a mother by her nature, and maternal ones seem to be pledged in її day from the very day її appear on the light of day. But in the new family, the heart of a woman often blames the fortune of fortune to her new children. And in an hour I overgrow my hatred ...

How buti, how do you hate the children of a person in the first place? How can you not know in your own strength and just accept the child, how can you call out that anger?

Hate - not life!

Be evil, hateful motherfucker - greedy. You definitely haven’t shown yourself like this, have you?

It’s impossible to hate the fathers and relatives of a new person, even if you don’t accept your homeland, and life will be a nightmare. A woman, as you can say, "I hate the father of a man that whole family," blame yourself for strong suffering.

About yak here you can talk about it, that th, tim more, about yak family happiness that harmony? Adzhe sіm'ya - tse mutually intelligible, moreover, between the usima її members without blame. And if you hate relatives, fathers, or more, the child of a man in the first place, then your marriage is doomed - and at once you will be unhappy.

How, in your opinion, does one feel like a person in such a squishy situation? Vіn having fallen in love with the bottom, dear, I love the girl And having taken off the frown of the squad, how to hate yoga among the most close people. What is acceptable?

Such a woman simply discovers the life of a lonely person and herself, and rests with the terrible closed when. If you hate someone, then we’ll all frown on her, and people will behave in such a way that it’s not enough to force their hatred. And children suffer more - not for what, scorched, not guilty ...

Those who hate the children of a man in the sight of his great slut, but rather saw in themselves. Always love your children - and it's natural! І put on your boots.

How is a normal father to be put up to the people, how to hate її children? Let me bring up that person - Yogo Kohana woman? I don't know who I am!

Obviously, for this difficult problem, it is necessary and necessary for you to fight - to conquer hatred, to destroy your heart. Negative emotions are richer, richer once stronger and harder, lower positive.

• Happiness, joy, love in a marvelous rank transform people, positively pour into their mental and physical health, beneficially breathe into their lot.
• Well, hatred, anger, ogida, images - it’s almost like they give, scorch and destroy a person, build up their share, make it stronger negative injection on yoga, I'm that trivality of life. Moreover, a hundred times stronger, lower at the first drop.

The hating woman is unhappy that self. Vaughn vіdshtovkhuє vіd yourself people, good luck, be-yakі radіsnі podії.

An unfortunate person is unhappy with everything - and if you hate someone even more strongly, you can hardly love someone in a right way. That's why two qi almost never get used to one human heart.

Reasons for sure!

If you see hatred to the child of a person in the first place, try first to understand the reasons for this ruinous feeling.

Give me proof for food, why do you hate your man's children so fiercely? There may be the following reasons:

• The children are simply unbearable to behave.
• Negative ide vid dei chi chítini - won't hate the new mother.
• A person attaches all respect to children only to children, but you do not take away the kohanna.
• Hatred is absolutely ungrounded and has no visible reasons.

Tse osnovnі that dosit chastі factors. Know yourself honestly, is there a problem with your mind?

If you can choose one of the overridden factors above - the problem can be eliminated. But for some reason, a serious psychological work will happen, without which nothing can be seen.

The child is unbearable!

Come play the role of kind and sweet new mother new booth, And there they check on you right terror. The children of a man are the right warning: the stench is unbearable, the tantrums are blowing, and they drive you out of your mind. Screams, scandals, heather, tears, kicking with legs, shuffling with objects.

Older children conduct more subtle tactics, slander inadmissibility, rule boycotts, and show their protest with all their might. They don’t listen, shy everything in defiance, and vzagali, є we’ll cut with the butt of an intolerable child.

Mabut, my dear mother would hate them for such a behavior! How can you calm down and get crazy angry here?

To talk to your newly-made dbailivim person - don't let wine calm you down. Ask for more without hysterics, calmly, peacefully - yoga about support. See, you understand that children should behave like this only to those who do not accept at the booth new woman- I raise their protest.

It's natural for them! Be patient. Let your man help you - it’s smart to talk to your children and take care of their wives. You show severity to children at which stage it is suvoro contraindicated!

Children even more often and loudly ring out to themselves that their mother is in love with her. For them, it’s not very important, to hate themselves in the depths of the soul - and through inadequate behavior, hysterics, disobedience, they get stuck with negativity and pain that they have accumulated.

It doesn’t matter, if you are guilty of being kind and tolerant mother. Tse colossal work, but try - tse pay off later.

Children check hatred and anger for you, so that later we will show the fathers that they have instilled in the houses an evil mother. Accept a call - and don't get caught up in emotional warfare. Do yoga and meditation. Seriously help me. Your task is to keep calm!

Ale do not ignore children and do not be evil that baiduzhoy. To show that, regardless of their windings, all the same, you are kindly put up to these little robbers and accept them be-yakim. So, it will be harder and harder - but it’s hard to come.

Your task is not to take care of other people's children, but work so that the stinks accept you, recognize you. As long as you stink, you have a foreigner, but if you show you what you are on your side, the stink will come. And then your hatred will go away by itself and overgrowth in the kohanny.

Go ahead and hate me.

This happens more often, unfortunately. You come to a new family, or rather, to bring you there by the hand of a new love of a person - and here it begins to fizzle ...

Child, chi children, begin to simply humiliate you with their hatred, so that you don’t hurt. You tried to help yourself to be kind and kind, to know contact with him, points dotik, spilnu mov ...

Ale tse marno. To hate you, you are a stranger, and looking at you, you just feel greedy. The natural reaction to it is growing hatred in the mind to a small nightmarish enemy.

It's greedy, understand, the docks are not pizno! Tse everything can be brought to such naslіdkіv, about yaki you will be shoddy forever. Vіn only a child, a little foolish child, but a woman has grown up and is wise. Then why do you hate yoga and do you hate yoga?

Zvichayno, to that scho vie - emotional nature. You wanted it so much that the new family had an idil, but it didn’t work. Zvіdsi - anger, the image of that rozdratuvannya on children. But now think about it - why should you hate you?

Can't you seriously think, can't this child be deceitful on the basis of the idea, po'yazani specifically with you? She doesn't know your vin. I don't want to know! Ale only through those who have lost their mother.

And now you see, how serious it is. A small, vulnerable person has the most attachments to his mother in the world! I can’t replace a single titka її.

And mami's loss is priceless stress. Navit as a child is far from being a baby, but a bastard - nothing changes. You suffer, and you are unbearable.

As long as you don’t try to understand what is hidden deep in the soul of a child, you won’t be able to make a baby with her. And if you grow up, everything will change. I don’t mind, obviously - it takes an hour.

• Pin it on a child - just give it a rest.
• Just try to understand him broadly and don't impose your friendship on him.
• Just be a guarantor, do not react to yoga anger, show patience and turbulence, do not lick with drinks.

With the help of a child, evaluate you and accept you. You will be happy. I child. And your man will be especially happy and wise I love a woman Vіn rev.

Jealousy is a terrible force

Arriving in a new house, you raptom you show that your new man shows all his tenderness and love not to you, but to children!

Jealousy burn you in the middle, and now you just hate yoga children, like they take away your rightful part of love! You are unfortunate, selfish and more, more evil.

It’s not good to pin it down, otherwise a person will simply see you from his booth. Tse foolishness of pure water! You are lucky to know the lower, daunting dad, who adores his child. It all means that if you have a baby with him, you love him!

Of course, children in the first place, you are unlikely to be able to respect your own, but you are guilty to love them like your own! Then you will have a perfect, harmonious family.

Yakby vin did not love you, well, think about it, heyba vin grafted you at your booths, to your blues? Aje only stink - more expensive and more expensive, but only in the new. And being jealous of them is a sign of emotional and spiritual immaturity.

Why do I hate yoga?

If your hatred is unprimed, it is especially important. Better for everything, there is a reason for jealousy, but you just can’t blame yourself.

Even more important are those who lie on a child like a mother. And you, like a squad, you can’t psychologically accept the extra squad of your kohan.

Possibly, in a steadfast way, on the bridge, associating one of the children with one of the most numerous retinue - I will not give you peace of mind. Try try try to understand - to know the reasons for any problem - that, in fact, is already half the solution of the problem.

Aja child suffers the most...

So and є - children suffer the most here. You are guilty of understanding, in some unbearable camp there is a child, and blowing її.

It’s just unbearable to learn how to behave like a wine – understand, on the price of wine you can be more serious. Vіn may sound like a tata in the fact that he instilled a new woman in the houses - and even the same child becomes self-possessed, embittered and unfortunate.

Children often call to themselves that they have been deprived without their mother - what would not have happened to her. This is how the child's psyche is nailed.

Lying on a child is simply an unbearable task - to accept it as a mother's new one, a stranger to an unknown woman. Just think about it! Try as little as possible to put a child on your plate.

Reveal that mom, himself native person has left you. Forever! І on the її mіsce magaєsta іnsha. Alien. I didn’t understand ...

Reaction, rejection - this is the natural reaction of children in different countries. Vin is a child! And the child still has the ability to think rationally, analyze and practice over himself. And the axis is all together. Forward! Tse your direct obov'yazok.

Love!

Tse naputtya and joy, as I can be with you forever. Let your life at the same time be important and avoid failures, pain, disappointment.

Let it be known to you that the whole evil world of lashings is against you. Let everything be so evil that you don’t understand, no one will be afraid. Tse everything will change - believe it or not.

For whom, simply begin to love at once. To love your new child, which would not be there. The child will need something, so you won’t show it. Kokhannya can be insane, yoga does not require merit!

To love just like that, just through those who win. All children in the world merit on such a kokhannya, and even require it. Turn, tse charіvnym, neimovirny order to change your share.

If your wife, strange heart is filled with love, then the whole world is filled with it, and people change! You will definitely know more than enough language and contact with your new children.

You will become attached to them, and soon you will start flying, as if you could hate a miracle child! Love and strangely childish heart for an hour vіdkriєtsya to you. And your man will love you even more.

It doesn't matter, trust me. To that kokhannya is the natural camp of a woman. Also, if you want to, then your soul will change, you will become more easily that good.

Your new children will become more and more happy, and will bring you more joy. And, for the sake of it, how beautiful, loving children you have, you look up, as if you were unfortunate.

To love not only the child of a person, but also your relatives, fathers, friends. Loving is easy! It's easier to get rich, to hate less. Just allow yourself!

So you have to show up in a right way happy family. Like in your enchanting kaztsi, in the yak you didn’t believe until the end, but it’s not uncommon to see.

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So it was like becoming my model as a man with some two children in the first place, at the moment the eldest is 17, the youngest is 10. close to fate, but once we talked and chatted. The youngest (then it was close to 7) stretched himself up to me, hugged me, hugged me, kissed me, but there is one thing that the child is completely normal in terms of health, but greedily launched in terms of vihovannya-no one needs neither mother nor father, child Tilki with all their hands to breed what a child is like grass (they started absurdly but really), and I am so right and good enough to take on a new one. vchu yogo elementary speeches, but when you come home and come to us two days later, you don’t remember it and everything is back to back. rocky five times and show you how the crayfish hibernate (ale, having shown the hour, I don’t feel anything, nor the father-in-law, nor the man-everything with his hands), but I show it to everyone with a handy fall. 8-9 years, having become rude, rob everything for evil, you say to you that it’s not possible, but you don’t know it right, so you don’t feel it at point-blank range, but to you the word of wine to you is ten and with virazkoy, and then I suffered. .. Not at all, I didn’t scream at all, but tried to convey to the person, but with me, having taken a bigger hard child and one miraculous moment, I said that the legs of this child weren’t in my booth, if you want to talk to me, go for a walk with him, but don’t try home so that I didn’t watch yoga in my eyes. Vadya had a sip, after a while, I didn’t drink yoga anymore (I didn’t drink yoga for three months before my grandmother in another place) - I sighed with relief. Everything started then, if in the past spring, having succumbed to me, it lives and is more vibrant that I’m pregnant, and I don’t know anything - wine, then, directly energizing if I’m less people and what was found in case of skin rash walk. Sweat for summer, I’ll wake up to my grandmother - I gave birth .. and if my Artem was 2 months old, he turned around and started ... come to us if Vadim can’t be at home - and imposingly feel himself clapping with a refrigerator, heifers marvel a little not at all. , to you you say you’re not wise, in the Internet laziness and bawl at the top of your lungs about the yakus gro and tse stupidity “What’s up” with a yell vodpovid on be-yak food-oh me just beat, I hate yoga-axis at once a couple of years ago I pinned it, so I phoned a person and delivered an ultimatum, otherwise I take you away and forget the way here, or I immediately get out and go myself. having arrived, I don’t know how to behave further.

Zhіnka, viyshovshi zamіzh, zavzhd want to feel like a gospodarka of the camp. More shortly, if a young couple is alive and well with their fathers, then the intensity of conflicts is reduced. But what about being shy, how does a person already have a child like the first one? How to vibrate with him, not stumbled upon someone on another plane and not forgetting about yourself? Rarely, but all the same, there may be a situation, if a person is embarrassed to vihovuvat sin or a daughter of his great squad. Times often blame conflicts, and learn it yourself the best blues can zіpsuvatisya zgodom.

In the presence of another squad, it is necessary to show the maximum delicacy and be objective. Do not be afraid to suddenly recognize the situation, women are smart enough to ignore the negative feelings, do not promote them out loud. Prote zamovchuvannya problems and cause less to її pogirshennya, not cherry. In fact, it’s not an easy task to lie on your shoulders: learn to love a child, like a child, as if only fighting, and be able to cope with your own feelings. Rarely does anyone truly know that a person cannot accept someone else's child. How to behave in this situation, how to be put before the baby?

The coils of the problem

Are the stars taken to crush the vlasnoi inconsistency and lack of escape? Why has a person grown up with a rapt permeate a sense of selfishness, inconsistency? Women who are born to their partner's children are often jealous. I will become such an internal emptiness and aggression stink myself, I can’t tell you about it, being afraid of judgment, and it’s more close people. Such women know that, having known, they will immediately stink at their stupidity and weakness. Movlyav, they didn’t think to podolat like a child, in order to compensate for dislike.

Indeed, for suffocating jealousy of children, as sometimes to reach the point of absurdity, there are reasons. Most of the stench is attached to our underbelly. On this day, few people can boast of him, that in the New Bulo happy childishness at povnіy sіm'ї s father and matіr'yu. Often children are brought to vihovuvat women. And for a woman in the middle of a day, a girl can’t grow up with a total well-being. For such a future child, always whisper at the otochyuchih confirmation of the fact that one can love them widely not for some significant gain, but just like that. As the daughter of a chi sing of a person from the first school is fighting you strongly, know that you are not selfish. At whom there is almost nothing nasty, it’s natural to instill, but with him it’s necessary to practice, otherwise you can spend it with yourself and trust yourself to the world.

What is the most sensible woman?

The young squad, as a rule, is more sensitive to jealousy. If you want to see with your mind that it’s a little wrong and you don’t characterize it from the short side, but it’s not easy to get into it. Razdratuvannya can be blamed at the most inopportune moment and vibity zivichnoy kolії. Jealousy feel the most beautiful, trembling almost like a man, and the squad starts to get angry and at the new one. Why so vіdbuvaetsya? You can vvazhat yogo in the middle of the wine in the one that you had a chance to try, for those uncontrolled emotions, like ruining in the middle, not to give yourself a feeling of full satisfaction and happiness.

The nature of a woman is such that it is necessary to feel one for a man. It is the fault of the nobility that a person is completely and completely dependent only on one, and there is no one in the world more important for a person. It is not uncommon for squads to be jealous of the quiet children of their person, as if they are similar to themselves. It’s easy to beat the situation, if the stench of embarrassment is tolerating the order of the presence of someone else’s son and daughter, and if you don’t, you can speak your mind. Rubbish, dokor sumlinnya, rozcharuvannya at your own - the list can be continued for a long time. It turns out that it is impossible to show them directly, even if a person is obov'yazkovo to form himself into a squad of immature special forces. Ale chi tse so true?

Accept the situation

Naigirshe, what can you do to a woman in this situation, say to yourself: “If I hate a child of a man in the first place, then it’s not so with me, I’m filthy.” Really blame the roiling through those who can’t control the situation, take care of yourself at the moment. As a rule, those who are strong are self-sufficient women, who want to be the first in everything. Feel hatred towards the little daughter, or the son of a man, who appeared, alert, crying out fear and zdivuvannya. It is not necessary to call yourself out for emotions that you try. It is important to know how to properly practice them. Just in this moment of time, let yourself go to vibrate honest harmonies with the children of a person, put them out of it with warmth.

The praise of the situation begins with a call to your address. It is necessary to learn to understand that ours are not filthy and good, they just show the spiritual camp at a given moment. Feel like imagining emotional sphere people are about the same as the speedometer, which shows the speed of the car. For example, it’s like a rush too fast, don’t you even think about ringing the car? Adequate is a person of understanding, that in її hands there is a kermo and the very fault of the situation. You can’t turn the past, you can’t drink it, or change the warehouses that you are satisfied with, you just need to let it in. It is not possible to gradually turn around until what happened to you at five - seven fates. To accept pardons of the past - tse means to forgive them for the future.

P_dtrimka for a person

If you want to sound marvelous, the person is staying at the camp where the more unenviable, lower squad, who go out in jealousy. People have to be brought between two fires: they constantly throw themselves from one side to the other, trying to reconcile them. Youmu nevyamki, how to behave correctly, so that the sіm'ї had less weldings and conflicts. Bachachi, how strongly the squad fights in the right situation, you start to be afraid for the future and don’t know what to do. As if there are other children, a person can often equally share his love and turbota for them. You know that you will forget about someone else, or you will be put with less evidence.

Really for the emotional well-being of this woman. Tilki їy pіd force to create such an atmosphere of calm, in a kakіy cholovіk feel comfortable. If the squad respects itself to do it wisely, then they will stand before us with honor before themselves, and then already up to the children of the kohanoi people. And soochuyuchi people will hoot on their own particularity. If a person has a daughter like the first one, then the squad itself can report singing zusil in order to make friends with her and stop bachiti with a little child supergirl. How is it to blame for the conduct of the dbailiva team on the promotion to a person?

Divide everyday turbos

Vіdomo collapsible meals, Scho suyuyutsya vyhovannya, duzhe importantly, practically unbearable. If you have seen the zamіzh for the people, if you have a child in front of the union, stop panicking. Do not consider yourself a victim of the situation. Think about it, is it possible for the squad to be brought more importantly? Vіn is guilty to achieve the bestowal on all those close to him with his turbo and respect. So help youma in tsoma! Pochnіt yourself to show interest in the child of a person, and tsey krok will help you to accept the little one like a native. Possibly, for the future you love yoga no less than good children. How to beat the situation itself, know yourself why you continue to work. Surprise to the child: is it possible, you need to buy something to help with the joy? Give the necessary points their hour. Get to the tutor, learn caries and go out into nature - everything is in your power. Believe me, a man will appreciate your efforts and will be placed before you with even greater respect.

Join a friendly dialogue

Other people's children are already growing fast. From the side you can see that they have no everyday problems. Really, it's the absence of turbos. Singingly, at the moments of childishness, it’s not so sweet to bring it up. Do you see how you can call out to the little one again the fun of the father? For a new one, it is a stranger, like vinyl, in order to improve the safety zone and comfort. You can remember that some children, leaning against a similar situation, are ruined and shattered, otherwise, on the contrary, show aggression. Chuyne, respectfulness to the child, to help develop all the fears and doubts. So you yourself see yourself more beautifully, and the little ones are easy to talk to. By the way, it’s not turned off, you can learn to fall in love with a child, and you won’t stop teasing.

How to make stosunki?

Children even react strangely to changes that come around. If the situation gets better, then correct it will be much more foldable, lower the problem at the first stage. It is not necessary to accumulate negative emotions in oneself. Do not fall in love at once, you need an effective robot over yourself. Try to do everything in your power to vibudovuvannya normal trustful intercourse. Don’t worry, your man’s bottom, like the first one, having sipped an unknown aunt, is ticking away. Somehow the people have grown up, it’s up to you to be wiser and repair it properly!

Spіlne spent an hour

Yak bi vee weren't occupied by robots either all right around the house, if you want to make friends with a child of a person, you know a good year for self-development or active recovery. Choose what suits you: walks on the streets, sports gymnastics, reading books, and perhaps a sleepy review of cartoons. Children will love more, if they are choked up, those interests grow up. Become for a child if not a native mother, then I would like to have a friend, who would help me at the right moment. Believe me, you will be a good man, even if it’s acceptable, if they talk about your child, give him a podtrimka.

Spillnі vіdnosinі zvjazhuyut, dopomagayut razkritissya svoobistostі. The hour will come and the child of a man will share his problems with you more often. Alas, we will be able to do it only once, if absolute trust is formed.

Share emotions

The more positive hostility, smiles and joy you give to children, the more positive hostility she has about your person. Don't be afraid to bestow your emotions, don't be afraid to be surprised by your accepting inconsistencies! Children always need respect and are dependent on them, and take care of those people who don’t look good. Required to be known, children are more wary of being placed before the other half of their fathers, for those who do not want to extend their kohannya s kimosche.

In order for the child to be friendly with you, try to show yourself more friendly. Indulge in the wind of positive energy, and even then in the future you will not be fooled about like a thoughtless thing. It’s not necessary to look at a child, don’t let her feel like a stranger. Believe me, I'm really worried about you no less.

Collect gifts

Only generous people can share in a fair way and give joy to others. Become a magnanimous person, to bring neimovirne satisfaction to a happy child's laugh. Gifts - the shortest path to the heart of a baby. How can a child not love taking surprises? Just try, so that the stench does not look like that, you are going to buy respect for that kindness to yourself. Don't check anything natomist! Give just like that, from the soul, from the wide heart!

Gifts are even better for themselves, blaming apparently unperfected generosity, let’s hope that you can make the whole world happy for ever. Find out from the person about the dream of the yogo child, and boldly proceed to the realization of the little man's dream. Let such a pod_ya become a misfit for the little one, the smut, so that you won yogo. Gifts, like nothing else, help to turn a child to yourself, to set up honestly trustworthy little things with her.

In this way, the manifestation of jealousy to the child of a person is not to blame for becoming the cause of the formation of coldness and alienation. The women of this situation could tell that a person has grown up, that she has grown rich in life. You don't need to keep looking after your childish complexes. Take it upon yourself to pay for the vodnosini in your family. Then you can look at a child's person as your friend, and not as an enemy.